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’” I was enamored with this guy from the get-go, but his salutation was only part of the enticing package.But alas, his thinking (or at least saying) I was gorgeous was not enough to keep him around after three dates. Intellectually we know that it only matters that think we are attractive, and what others think isn’t our concern.
The purpose of the video was to send a positive message to women that they don’t have to wait for their prince to come & can #makethefirstmove.To find out more about how to increase your VEP, head to Hayley’s website.Some men tell you they think you are attractive on the first or other early dates. For two months I dated a man who never said he thought I was attractive.I think some men hold back telling a woman she is beautiful (or pretty or sexy) because they don’t want to come across as fawning, smarmy, unctuous or gushy.He doesn’t want a woman to think he has fallen for her based only on her looks, so then can be led around by his nose.Yes, I know you can, but I’m guessing you’re as incredulous as I am about these attitudes.
So what about those of us who aren’t classically beautiful?As I have said before it’s not about WHERE you meet someone it’s about HOW. I don’t think the way to solve this is to prohibit where we meet people, I think the solution is to educate people around how to communicate respectfully.- - - Read the article here - Haley goes on to say that the most important elements to increase when it comes to making contact with the types of partners you’d actually want to get to know are what she calls ‘the VEP’: visibility, eye contact, proximity.In frustration at his aloofness, one day I said to him, “I don’t even know if you find me attractive.” He said, “I’m pursuing you, aren’t I?” Since I didn’t consider this wealthy man’s once-a-week phone calls and occasional casual, home cooked meals much of a pursuit, I retorted, “Are you?And women think that someone wants something from them if you compliment their looks.