Child by choice dating
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Everything I do and every choice I make affects my child. Including making the choice of what kind of partner I choose to have in my life.And let me tell you ladies…pickings are very, very, very slim, comical even (again…laughing to myself).
Children don’t want to see their parent hurt, or taken advantage of, and can struggle to welcome a new partner amicably if they doubt the partner’s suitability or sincerity.This is sometimes because you may have been much more available to them before – to look after grandchildren or help them out financially – but suddenly your life is fuller and you have less time (and maybe money) to devote to them.Jealousy can also occur because they are not used to seeing you show affection to someone else.Beyond that, one has to assess if the person you are considering is even worthy of being trusted around your child. Having to “evaluate” someone does not seem natural, but it has to be done.The freedom of that natural attraction and butterflies of meeting someone is now lost.I am going to give you my realness right here and right now when it comes to being a single mother and trying to date.
I am only speaking from my own personal experience.Protectiveness There are many stories in the media about con artists preying on vulnerable older people and it is right and natural for adult children to want to look after their parent, and their assets.They are likely to feel even more protective if the parent has been single for a long time as they may doubt their parent’s ability to make good choices.I was often met with surprise and questions of why I did not have children.Feeling backed into a corner having to explain my personal situation was a challenge and was not fun.Many say that I should just focus on my son and being a good mom and forget about dating.