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It shouldn't be surprising, then, that the problem is primarily an internal one.
The problem is that they’re working on the wrong areas and a misunderstanding of just what makes somebody appealing to women. more often than not it’s not even in the top 5 of what makes a man attractive.I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.So why would they set the bar so much higher than what they know they can get?Some might point out that their "delusion" is caused by their experiences getting men who are out of their league for sex and casual dating.We all know roughly what we could achieve, whether or not we have achieved it.
Occasionally we modify this self-perception when we realize the extent of strengths we didn't know we had, or weaknesses that have greater implications than we'd imagined.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
Most women who complain that they "don't get any attention from men" actually mean that they don't get attention from the men they want.
And the simple advice for women in this situation (which I have seen on other blogs, and have occasionally given out myself) is sometimes appropriate: "you aren't hot enough to get the guys you want; lower your standards." However, in most cases, I think there is deeper phenomenon at work.
Women tend to be aware of and rate their looks fairly accurately.
We know the inner workings of our own mind: how honest we are, how prone we are to mood swings, our insecurities and strengths, what we've experienced, what we still need to learn, the strength of our ambitions, etc.